Does Penis Size Matter
Does Penis size matter? Some say yes, some say
no. It is a matter of continuing controversy.
Men and women argue this point, and magazines
have frequent articles on this subject.
Sometimes size simply does matter, however.
Gina from Los Angeles has this to say: "I have
been dating a man who I think is wonderful.
We have so much in common, and everything is
great. The problem is that when we have intercourse,
I can't feel his Penis inside of me. There is
also no contact with my clitoris. It doesn't
matter how long he goes, I can't feel his cock.
With other partners, I can reach orgasm within
a couple of minutes, but he is so small, I just
can't. I feel embarrassed going on about specifics,
but his Penis is about 4 1/2 inches long and
very thin. I try to tell myself that it doesn't
matter, but the fact is that I deserve to have
good sex and to have orgasms. Not only can I
not come, but I am worried that he can't feel
much either, which makes me feel like less of
a woman with him. I don't know what other women
do in this situation, but I'm confused and upset.
This guy and I get along so well, and everything
is so great, but the sex is so unsatisfying.
What can I do?"
There are a few things they can try, but unfortunately
first she has to be able to tell him what the
problem is - and that is bound to be uncomfortable,
and to put a strain on their relationship. Can
you imagine how difficult it would be for a
woman to tell a man she cares about that she
can't feel his Penis during sex?
After they have talked about the problem, they
can talk about solutions so that Gina receives
the sexual stimulation she needs to feel good
about their physical relationship. There are
penile extenders available at most sex toy shops,
or they can be bought online. There are small
vibrators designed to stimulate the clitoris
during intercourse or at other times. Her boyfriend
can use a vibrator and masturbate or perform
oral sex before or after intercourse.
Also there are Penis enlargement techniques
and programs. First off, there is surgery, but
that is expensive and intrusive. Most men would
not willingly undergo surgery, nor should a
woman ask it. Then there are mechanical enlargement
techniques such as Penis pumps and stretching
rings. These can have some effect, but can also
weaken and tear the delicate tissue of the Penis.
Some doubt that these pumps can be effective,
and there are differing opinions as to whether
such mechanical techniques work.
There are also exercises like the jelq and some
special kinds of stretching. These exercises
can have some effect, but require both knowledge
and regular effort. Lastly there are Penis pills,
which on their own usually have a great effect
and can increase the size of the Penis. It all
depends on what Penis pills you choose as some
are simply a rip off.
Obviously in some situations, size can make
a difference, not only in terms of the quality
of sex, but also as far as the comfort involved
in the relationship.
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